共Particles: where, when and who
Together with
と marks the person you do something with, and the other side of things that take two.
Doing something together
A と: with A
I'll see a movie with a friend.
I live with my family.
一緒に adds “together”.
I talked with Yamada.
Verbs that take two
Some actions need another side
He married Tanaka.
I had a fight with my younger brother.
My daughter really looks like her mother.
This color is different from that one.
と or に?
Both sides, or just one?
I talk with a friend.
It goes both ways.
I tell a friend.
It goes one way.
Crash
Who moved?
A car and a truck collided.
Both were moving.
A car hit a wall.
Only the car was moving.
Swapping viewpoints
You can flip the people around
With と, the two people can trade places without changing the facts: 兄は田中さんと結婚した and 田中さんは兄と結婚した describe the same wedding, from different viewpoints.
Don't confuse this with the listing と. In 兄と姉は来ました, “My brother and sister came”, と links two nouns and both are the subject.
Check yourself
What is と doing?
Your turn
と or に?
I talked with my sister on the phone.
Say it yourself
Weekend plans
A coworker asks what you're doing this weekend. You're going hiking with your friend, and your sister looks a lot like her.
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